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Super_Sonic
Level 31: Sheng Long
Posts: 6448Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:11 PM
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| The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
If Homosexuality is a gene, then nothing you can do can change that. Just like how someone with brown hair will have brown hair (unless they die it), no matter what they're parents say or do.
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RogueMarie
Level 25: Twin Snakes
Posts: 3147Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:11 PM
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| The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
I never said that that wasn't a factor. My parents hated PDA. I'm quite the opposite. But yes, your parents ARE major factor in your life and upbringing and all that you do. But just because your parents are gay doesn't mean you will be by default. You also have to take into consideration the rebellious factor that shows up in all kids at one point or another.
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The Man
Level 24: Sore Fingers
Posts: 2669Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:14 PM
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| Super_Sonic wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
If Homosexuality is a gene, then nothing you can do can change that. Just like how someone with brown hair will have brown hair (unless they die it), no matter what they're parents say or do. |
Homosexuality isn't in your genes thoguh. It is a chemical reaction in the womb. (if Cursed is right>_>)
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Super_Sonic
Level 31: Sheng Long
Posts: 6448Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:15 PM
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| The Man wrote: | | Super_Sonic wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
If Homosexuality is a gene, then nothing you can do can change that. Just like how someone with brown hair will have brown hair (unless they die it), no matter what they're parents say or do. |
Homosexuality isn't in your genes thoguh. It is a chemical reaction in the womb. (if Cursed is right>_>) |
A chemical reaction in the womb would alter your genes.
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RogueMarie
Level 25: Twin Snakes
Posts: 3147Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:16 PM
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| The Man wrote: | | Super_Sonic wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
If Homosexuality is a gene, then nothing you can do can change that. Just like how someone with brown hair will have brown hair (unless they die it), no matter what they're parents say or do. |
Homosexuality isn't in your genes thoguh. It is a chemical reaction in the womb. (if Cursed is right>_>) |
Dude, your entire body is a chemical reaction. Duh.
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The Man
Level 24: Sore Fingers
Posts: 2669Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:23 PM
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| RogueMarie wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
I never said that that wasn't a factor. My parents hated PDA. I'm quite the opposite. But yes, your parents ARE major factor in your life and upbringing and all that you do. But just because your parents are gay doesn't mean you will be by default. You also have to take into consideration the rebellious factor that shows up in all kids at one point or another. |
My post wasn't about being gay though.
Not all thoughts are caused by your parents of course.
The rebellious stage is like 6months. This is when you realize you are just like your parents. After that you go back to being like your parents.
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RogueMarie
Level 25: Twin Snakes
Posts: 3147Timestamp: Tue Jul 08, 08 11:26 PM
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| The Man wrote: | | RogueMarie wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
I never said that that wasn't a factor. My parents hated PDA. I'm quite the opposite. But yes, your parents ARE major factor in your life and upbringing and all that you do. But just because your parents are gay doesn't mean you will be by default. You also have to take into consideration the rebellious factor that shows up in all kids at one point or another. |
My post wasn't about being gay though.
Not all thoughts are caused by your parents of course.
The rebellious stage is like 6months. This is when you realize you are just like your parents. After that you go back to being like your parents. |
Honey, you don't know much about kids. You hit a rebellious stage when you're very little. You hit another one in mid elementary school, and then you hit another one in your teenage years.
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Black Rose
Level 31: Sheng Long
Posts: 6544Timestamp: Wed Jul 09, 08 12:04 AM
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As long as the child is getting love and care, I don't see why not. As far as I'm concerned, the quality of love and protection the child receives has nothing to do with his/her parents being gay.
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Veggi
Level 20: Metal Mario
Posts: 1256Timestamp: Wed Jul 09, 08 12:14 AM
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IMO whether a parent is a good one or not depends on how well they can take care of their kid. What really counts here is whether the kid wants to have gay parents, maybe there are some kids who might not care, but if I had gay parents it would screw over my entire life. I would be uncomfortable living with them and I would be made fun of constantly. No one would treat me normally and I would hate it. From what I understand I think if gay people are going to adopt kids I think it's best to adopt the kid at an age where he can tell you whether he's fine with having gay parents or not.
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The Man
Level 24: Sore Fingers
Posts: 2669Timestamp: Wed Jul 09, 08 12:22 AM
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| RogueMarie wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | RogueMarie wrote: | | The Man wrote: | | No, I'm suprised you guys haven't learned this. Your parents have a MAJOR effect on the way you turn out. Monkey see monkey more likely to do. At a young age if you see your parents doing something you will be more likely to do it. Your teaching your kid to do something, though your not doing it on purpose your still teaching them. No matter how much you like to think you are an individual and your parents had no say in it, you are not at all. The environment is a major factor and your parents are part of that environment. |
I never said that that wasn't a factor. My parents hated PDA. I'm quite the opposite. But yes, your parents ARE major factor in your life and upbringing and all that you do. But just because your parents are gay doesn't mean you will be by default. You also have to take into consideration the rebellious factor that shows up in all kids at one point or another. |
My post wasn't about being gay though.
Not all thoughts are caused by your parents of course.
The rebellious stage is like 6months. This is when you realize you are just like your parents. After that you go back to being like your parents. |
Honey, you don't know much about kids. You hit a rebellious stage when you're very little. You hit another one in mid elementary school, and then you hit another one in your teenage years. |
Honey, you don't know much about children. They are all different.
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